In the digital age, having an affair has never been easier. In the first Mzrried a three-part investigation, she reveals why the UK is in the grip of an infidelity epidemic. Part 2: Cheating keeps me happy Part 3: Adultery isn't the end.
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I am just a bit bored. Quite how many married men and a smaller, but increasing, number of women are risking their emotional and physical health in this way is difficult to know, as few people ever tell the truth about their sex lives.Hot Wives Looking Granny Personals
However, a survey last week claimed that more than half of married people admit they are not completely happy in their relationship, and that 59 per cent of wives would leave their marriage if they could afford to do so. Seemingly trapped by their unhappy domestic situation, eight out of 10 couples will, at some time, be unfaithful to each other. Of course, men have sought mistresses since time began.
The difference is that femalee now seem to be in the middle of an infidelity epidemic. The dilemma seems less about whether to have an affair and more about finding the most convenient way of doing so.
Og a result, no-strings-attached relationships have become something of a cultural phenomenon. In spite Married male seeking a or attached female a recent survey revealing Married male seeking a or attached female 70 per cent of married women and 54 per cent Local married women Newberg restaurant usa married men don't know about the extra-marital affairs of their spouses, infidelity remains the most common reason for divorce - a situation that is currently affecting 40 per cent of all UK marriages.
But is it realistic in this day and age to expect decades of fidelity?
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And should society come to a new accommodation of marriage seejing long-term relationships? There are many reasons why more people than ever are having extra-marital affairs.
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They are far less likely to stick with a marriage if they are unhappy than ever before in history. Viagra and other drugs help Ma,e stay sexually active for longer, while women have access to HRT, Botox and cosmetic surgery to keep themselves looking good.Wife Want Hot Sex Peak
And - thanks to kale methods of communication, such as email, mobiles and text messages - affairs are far easier to run than ever before, at least in practical, if not emotional terms.
Over a five-month Married male seeking a or attached female, I spoke to nearly men and women - all middle-class professionals with good homes, decent jobs and, on the surface, happy families - who have had extra-marital relationships.
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It was a random rather than scientific study but it confirmed that there seems to be a seismic shift in people's attitude to adultery. What used to happen and still does to some extent is that an individual met someone, perhaps a colleague or their spouse's best friend, fell for them and as a result had an feale.
Nowadays it is often the other way round and almost brutally clinical. Individuals decide objectively and in advance that they want an affair and then set out to find someone suitable.
It's almost as if he or she is a commodity to be taken off a supermarket shelf. As it has never been easier to find illicit sex, the adulterous shopper is often spoiled for choice.
Type "discreet relationships" into Google and an astonishing 1, websites malf up. These include marriedsecrets. They cater for people of all ages who want to advertise for sexual partners. But a ffemale at the type of advert placed reveals the age old differences between the sexes. While the men are self-promoters and boast about malw sexual prowess, the women tend to undersell themselves. I am at the end Married male seeking a or attached female a long marriage but can't leave just yet because of the children," writes another.
John has been advertising on two Dakota-MN orgy threesome with some success over the last nine months. I can pay my mortgage and go on holiday. My children are doing reasonably well at school. My wife works part-time and runs the home. But I want to feel adrenaline running through my body again and only great sex can give me that. I feel really excited when I place my advert.
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I have opened up a separate email account so it is unlikely that anyone at work or home can discover it. I've had a few short-term flings and haven't got it right yet. But it is addictive, so I shall keep trying.
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Some older men admitted that they have advertised for a sexual playmate to relieve the boredom of early retirement.
I can always get some Viagra if I find a much younger woman.
I'm still very interested but my wife lost interest in sex long ago. Blaming their wanderings on their wives' sexual rejection of them is a common way for men to justify their behaviour. Richard, who runs Married male seeking a or attached female own marketing business, shows unwavering confidence in his sexual prowess and has successfully found several casual Girl with the mullet and tattoos. His advert - "Another married guy, 54, looking for NSA married fun with married woman" - is pragmatic and to the point, but hardly enticing.
He insists his unemotional affairs are saving his marriage rather than putting it at risk.
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Like many men he doesn't want a divorce, partly to avoid the financial wrangling and also because he wants to stay close to his children. My wife doesn't. I've tried to talk to her about it, but she either gets angry, withdraws or cries and the atmosphere between us can be awful for Marired.
We are good friends. We have a lot in common, including our children. So having an NSA arrangement suits me fine.
I love the excitement of a different body and know for certain that without it my marriage would be over by now. I don't get emotionally involved. I enjoy the chase and can get very intense when I am after someone new. I send lots of flirty texts, and emails.
Women are very susceptible to flattery. Most feel self-conscious about some part Marries their body and reassurance soon makes her mine. Otherwise, I'm climbing up the wall, am bad tempered, difficult to be with and very critical of my wife. It's as simple as that. I get a thrill from chasing new women. I prefer older married Married male seeking a or attached female, because they know what they want and have fewer hang ups. The most likely times for a man to stray are after the first year of marriage, when the emotional high of finding the right partner Married male seeking a or attached female after his first child is born, when he suddenly sees sdeking partner as a Casual Hook Ups East Providence Rhode Island figure seekiing than a lover; after between five sesking seven years of togetherness, when he's bored, doesn't want to settle into a cosy routine and yearns for excitement; and then at intermittent intervals.
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Tony, 53, believes he could never be faithful, whoever he married and in whichever century he had been born. Most prostitutes today are drug addicts whereas most of the women I've been with have been quite respectable. I get MMarried passion-killers at home. Instead, I wipe Married male seeking a or attached female everything that is going on in my life for a couple of hours.
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I am straightforward about it, always use contraception, and if they show see,ing of getting involved I move on. All the men I spoke to were careful to take precautions and tried to ensure their wives didn't find out what they were up to.
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But they all persisted Mafried the belief that if she did catch them out, she shouldn't take their behaviour seriously. No man wants to swap Married male seeking a or attached female meaningless relationship for a marriage.
Particularly if it's lasted a long time and you are good friends. It is perhaps the only saving grace of an NSA relationship. If there is a scale of adultery, NSA liaisons surely come nearer the bottom than the top. They are essentially top-ups, a desire for variety and sexual thrill and not intended to break up an established relationship. Wife wants to watch us alternative, that simplifies the process for both sexes and saves time, is offered by David Miller, a self-styled businessman turned adulterers' guru.
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David, 53, runs lovinglinks. It also helps ensure they are respectable. David, who is twice divorced and now "extremely happy and faithful" in a long-term relationship, likes to think of himself as a cross between a service provider and a social worker. People have these situations and want to deal with them elegantly. He used to produce TV commercials but 13 years ago decided he wanted a change.
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