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Over time we lose the connection with the part of ourselves that experiences desire. Through her research, Perel has found a number of ways to increase desire. We know Ltr loving relationship sought one. Desire flourishes in absence. When we are apart, we shift away from the day to day Ltr loving relationship sought we feel for and share with our partner and reconnect with that which is unfamiliar and exciting.

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We watch from a comfortable distance and in this Ltr loving relationship sought, this person who is so familiar becomes mysterious, exciting, unpredictable. In that moment, we are changed for a while and we are open to the excitement and mystery that is within touching distance. This is when love and desire share the space. To find the desire or to bring it back into a relationship we have to look to ourselves first, rather than making the issue one of what our partner can do to make us desire him or her more.

Ask yourself the question: When do you shut yourself off from desire? Is it when you feel exhausted? When you feel selfish for wanting?

When Ltr loving relationship sought pleasure feels wrong? Similarly, ask when you turn your desire on. When do YOU turn your desire on. This is a different question to asking what turns you on.

One comes from the self, one comes from the other. Is it when you miss your partner? Ltr loving relationship sought you feel like you deserve to look after lpving Who are you when you feel desire? Embrace that part of yourself. Desire is about a space you go into where you stop being the responsible, well-behaved human who looks after others and takes care of things.

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They are the heartbeat of relationships and the lifeblood of connection and intimacy. We deserve to experience desire in the fullest.

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It was a good question. I hope this has answered it for you. Thank you.

Rdlationship if the other partner needs desire outside his marriage to satisfy that need while working on the desire with his wife?

Is there ever room for that?